I get what you mean. Whenever I hop off the site I feel like people are gonna be all like "Wow guys Arcjecs finally offline let's talk shit and giggle about how stupid and intolerable ve is". But what I do know is that if that happens then the people doing it are just kind of miserable.

Everyone makes mistakes. And even if you were to do something bad it doesn't give anyone the excuse to shittalk you. I hate when people bring their opinions about a person they dislike when it doesn't even have to do with whatever they did wrong. They're just doing it to feel better about themselves and push themselves up. Anyways sorry holy yap—I just get what you mean a lot here and I wanted to express that

this happened to me but it's ok. i don't think people remember me on here LOL

i will like that too everyone needs to like me or its over

slightly off topic but i feel like communities like this need to stop immediately going at each other every time a new thing comes out about somebody ....... Like what if the context was left out and it turns out the whole thing was fabricated, or what if the person was like. 12 years old and making crude jokes (both of these things have been situations ive seen, but the second one i saw actually happen was 14 instead, still not really better)

i remember also people just like to accuse anyone of being hispatient's new identity, like i saw somebody getting legitimately harassed under the guise of them being hp, just for them to not be that person and be somebody who just owned a url on sntry that hp owned on rentry

sorry for yap this is something i think of a lot........

at this point i don't really care . i don't have a super strong attachment to anyone here and my life is practically over anyway so why not say what i think

Me too. That's why I just stay out of discourse in general.