Hi guys since everyone talks about this―I know how it feels to be afraid that people are talking bad about you behind your back and I've experienced it many times. I've felt the betrayal of a person who said they never liked you. It is one of the worst feelings in the world and I think a lot of people say that to hurt you, not because it's true. Especially because a lot of people here have abandonment issues for any number of reasons it causes more pain and people knowingly exploit that. So to anyone who's considering saying "I never liked that person"―please consider what you're doing to them. You don't have to continue being their friend if they truly did something bad but isolating and shunning community members will never be the answer and I stand by this