"Men experiencing queer attraction to women, women experiencing queer attraction to men"
I can't link the post where you say this but I don't think a man who likes a woman can be a lesbian. No matter how queer that attraction feels, the man will still be straight, right? Or how does that work? Genuine question
If a man experiences queer attraction to a women then they just kind of DO. Same goes for women experiencing queer attraction to men. My apologies if I'm just repeating myself here, but genuinely that's just how it is. Those people break the (what should be nonexistent) boundaries of sexuality. There are no rules to different types of attraction, those 'rules' were made up socially. If gender is queer in every way, why can't sexuality be? (Hypothetical question). Again, I know I am mostly just repeating myself here, though I hope my bits of additional explanation could help