fellow systems/collectives/(preferred term) who have partner systems – what's it like? i've never dated any systems myself (my ex is a system but he only found out after we broke up ages ago) so ive no idea what it's like lul (plus......aroace)
🕊️ / Dating other systems has been easy for us, we have dated 3 systems total, and nothing has really happened system wise.
When it comes to my own system, the "dating aspect" is taken seriously in a way, but we know it's more for coping if anything. Not everyone ends up co-conscious whenever we want them to be either, so it's tricky...
I guess in short, what I mean is that it's really complex. Might not help that all of us fall under the aroace umbrella, and the attachments aren't always strong like glue.
A bit interesting...? And it was fun cause at first it was just two alters dating and we would draw these two alters as their source (they are fictives) cause it's a funny shipp imagine dazai from bsd dating kokichi from danganronpa. we started to date like two years ago or something
It's a bit interesting?? In our specific case alters date eachother rather than us just dating as a whole, but we also consider our bodies to be together as well. It's a little awkward trying to coordinate things like dates but we both have an easier handle on inner system workings than a majority of systems I've seen..