HEY i have a question about my aroace spec needings, do you know a label where I don't want a sexual/romantic relationship because of past relationships? idk if something like this just exists
This one was a bit hard to find something specific for.. but I found a few that almost lines up with this
I have some notes on these attractions about how they differ from your request.. Hopefully that can help summarize the differences. Antisexual is for someone who's given up on love, relationships, and sex. Not specifically a lack of romantic or sexual attraction.
Requiesromantic/sexual is a lack of attraction because of emotional exhaustion, although it could be due to past encounters/relationships, it's a bit different than what you asked since it involves emotional exhaustion.
Acoromantic/sexual is different because it is attraction that one experiences, but hesitates to act on because of past experiences.
All of these terms differ slightly from your description, but I wanted to send them your way just in case. If none of these fit just send me another ask. I can coin a term for you ^^