I truly hate the term exclusionists as a queer term.
I understand why it is used, but isn't it exclusionary in itself?
To be queer is to be free and not care. And another queer persons comfortability isn't being an exclusionist.
If you identify as something controversial, stop villainizing your own community and embrace your uniqueness. /pos
Learn to not care, learn to simply ignore those who do not accept your identity.
The word "exclusionist" in the queer community is dividing, and does not bring anyone together, it only separates people further.