I'm so sorry if this is gonna sound offensive, but I am genuinely curious ><''
How can transmen be lesbians if they are men?
It's understood as far as I know that cis men can't be lesbian because it is nmlnm, so if transmen are also men, what's the difference? /genq
I do understand the history, and I understand transmasc lesbians, but transmen lesbians still confuse me... TnT
It doesn't sound offensive don't worry! I actually made a comment talking about this yesterday, which you can find here. I'd recommend reading that, and then coming back to my response.
Being a lesbian is actually not nmlnm, that is one of the common misconceptions about this identity. /nm /info Nmlnm is more applicable to wlw or sapphic than it is to the term lesbian. Being a Lesbian is to be queerly attracted to women in some way! This can include cis men and trans men being queerly attracted to women, as long as both are using the term in a genuine, non mocking way